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Alternatively, if you don't want to compromise on comfort, look for relaxed shapes and fabrics that can be dressed down for more casual gatherings

Dont Be Afraid to Clarify As mentioned above, there are differences between black tie and formal black tie optional events, so it can be useful to clarify with the hosts before you dig yourself in a hole

If you want to be extra AF like me (I love being extra), you could pair this cute plus size birthday outfit with a faux fur stole

Brown Dresses Chocolate Brown Dresses Meet your new neutral obsession: chocolate brown dresses

* Note that this is a second hand, VINTAGE piece and not brand new, so therefore may have minor imperfections

If you enjoy wearing shirts, go for one with patterns, short sleeves, or made from flannel